Hmmm...

i asked r to do something for me earlier, get me a coke out of the fridge... really a diet cherry vanilla dr. pepper but we call everything a coke... even if it's not really a coke... anyways, i just asked him the next time he got up if he would get me one... he never got up... i went in there, got a coke and then worked on another load of laundry... 7 hours today so far i've been doing laundry but i'm finally on my last load!! as i was coming back in he said, are you mad? i said no, not mad and didn't say anything else... i came back in the living room to finish up payroll and he said, sorry i didn't do that... then i smarted off and said, i'm sorry you don't do anything... it was not exactly the way that i wanted to start the talk and it didn't turn out too good... he got pissed and we had a few words... he stalked off into the back living room and is now sleeping... i can hear him snoring... one thing he said, why can't you just see where i'm coming from? i do, my question for him is, why can't he see where i'm coming from? i totally understand his situation but it's like he is oblivious to mine... i don't know... i feel like we can't even talk anymore... every time i try to say something to him he gets so defensive... and i'm so not trying to come off like that... with the exception of the comment earlier i've really been trying to watch the way i word things... guess we'll just see what happens...
UPDATE: r woke up... came in the living room, talked to the kitties, took a shower, and went to bed... he never said one word to me... it makes me feel like he doesn't even care... how special is that?!?!